FREAKY ***

There was a point in my life where I had major insecurity about my ***. You know, the two lips that are outside your ***. The only times when I was really seeing *** was in ***. And I was like: "Oh, that must be what I look like..." Eventually, I decided to check things out, and I was like: "What the...?!" "Jay, what does your *** look like?" Then I remembered Jay doesn't have a ***. And I was left all alone, with my mirror and my *** and my freaky ***! My insecurity with my *** continued to grow until at one point, I was in college and some people that I knew said: "Hey, guess what:" "*** come in all different shapes and sizes!" "No, they don't all look like they do in ***." "Not all *** are this big." Mind blown. So like I said, the *** are the lips that are outside the ***. There are two sets of them : there's the inner set, that's called the *** minora, and there's the outer set, that's called the *** majora. These lips are very sensitive and have lots of nerve endings, and they act like a doorway to the ***. The lips can be lightly colored, they can be darkly colored, the inner can be dark, the outer can be light, the outer can be dark, the inner can be light. They might be straight, they might be kinda wavy, they might have lots of wrinkles, they might be really smooth... The inner lips can be longer than the outer, and the outer lips can be longer than the inner. Or they can be about the same. They can be this long, this long... It's actually kind of amazing how many types of *** there are. Which is why the real reaction to looking at my *** should've been : "It's pretty rad." Not: "Oh my God!" *** distorsion is a problem all over the world. Depending on where you go, you're gonna find people changing it in different ways. In parts of Africa: Rwanda, Uganda, South Africa, there's a tradition of elongating and pulling the ***. Small twinge! But in other parts of the world, people are chopping their *** off! Big twinge! Big, painful twinge! Why would anybody do that? Well, some of them, namely *** stars, are expected to. I'm looking at you, Australia! Laws in Australia say that protruding *** are too obscene for ***. And even though we don't have laws like that here in the US, it sort of works out the same way. As a result, labiaplasties and vaginal rejuvenation are on the rise. I have received emails from people who are considering getting a labiaplasty or a vaginal rejuvenation because they feel insecure about it and also because of pressure from their partners. Pressure from partners to cut off a sensitive body part to make a more appealing hole for them to put their *** in! It's clear to me that it's not your *** that need tucked or your vaginas that need a rejuvenation. These *** need a rejuvenation of their *** human decency! And maybe their brain, while they're at it. But as for that insecurity, for me, it helped to sincerely recognize that *** do all look really different. There is this book... What was it called? "Femalia"! Yeah, I really liked that one. But there are lots of websites that are dedicated to showcasing all the diversity of ***, I'm gonna put some links down below. And another thing to keep in mind is that people do enjoy the diversity of ***. Yeah, there are ***, but you don't have to waste your time with those ones, cause everyone else is gonna be, like, so happy that you even have a ***! A last tip for overcoming insecurity: spend more time with your ***. Pull out a mirror, check out what's going on down there, and become familiar with your ***. You and your *** can't build a loving relationship with each other if you're not spending time together. Relationship facts. Alright, y'all, I gotta be outs. Thanks for watching, make sure you add me on Youtube, Facebook, Twitter, tumblr, you do that stuff and I will see you next week.