Eu Tenho Um Filho Gay! - Especial dia das mães

Hey my luvs! Here's Túlio! And today I'm with my Queen, you guys already know her from the channel! It's me, Túlio's Mom! How are you? Mother's Day is coming and this week we're doing all the videos with this theme! So we decided to record a vlog together! So you guys can know her better, and... ... ...what else? Know you better! Right? Right! There's so many people that are very distance of their parents as they're growing... True. They can't get close to each other, sometimes a there's a wall between them For sure. Our relation was always very pure, We were always great friends Uhum. We are very clear to each other Túlio as a child, He could transform everything into a toy, a game, And I had to be very energetic to join him! Because he never stops! He had a lot of energy, And runs to one side, to another side, and jump, jump, jump... And everything! He just never got tired! About Aline and her dancing classes, She used to do Ballet classes, And Túlio always watched her dancing, She participated to festivals, We used to travel with her to see the presentations, but Túlio never did any dancing classes True. He did other sports at that time, Judo, swimming, soccer, But no dancing at all. And when Túlio was a teenager, with games specially Just Dance, He surprised me! Because I could never imagine that he could dance so well! Despite the fact that I knew he was good at sports, He was always in spotlight at physical exercising, When he got to play in a bouncing house, he was the one that could jump higher, This was always so easy for him to do it, But about dancing, It was a surprise for me! His ability to create things, to create nice things starting with so few we had to offer at home, It surprises me a lot, Because I see he can do great things starting with so few stuff, So... I see Túlio as an artist! It makes me happy to see him making what he likes, because he do it with passion, With so much joy, What that makes us mothers happy! To know your kid gives *** what he likes! I'm kinda shy now because I'm a shy mom, But I think it's important to talk about it! Right? I see Túlio is happy making what he does, so I'm happy too! I see he's very satisfied with what he produces! So that's really good, it makes us, as a mother, very happy! I think sometimes we got very stressful about our children's carreer, What carreer it'll follow?? Will them earn enough money with this choice? But we need to stop and start to analyse other things, Like Túlio producing and creating things, I can see he's glad with that, and I'm satisfied with this. We can see about values today, there's a lot of important values that's being lost nowadays... For things with so less value than other stuff... Talking about values... and everything else! A lot of people are curious about something, I'm sure a lot of people watching this now wants to ask you: How's to have a gay son, that also does Drag? plus everything that's part of my work! How's it? Yea, so, I'm from a generation, Where gender subject, even about women in society, For all the opression the women used to suffer, And the homossexuality subect, We couldn't even talk about that! So a lot of people had to keep this for themselves because of the opression, even harder when it came from the parents, When Túlio told me, I said it was totally normal for me, To be homossexual, it would never change the love that I feel for him, The thing that would change this, is if I discover that he's a bad person, a person that's not good from the inside, A person that makes bad things with other people in order to always be in spotlight, To stand out in a bad way, And Túlio... he's just Túlio for me! The fact that makes me happy about him, is this nice mood that he have, the fact that we talk a lot to each other, Both ways, he's open to me, And I'm open to him, I ask him anything that I can understand, Conversation is VERY important! Yes! Any doubt I have I go and ask to him, I want you to send a message, To all the moms that are watching this video, And have some difficulty to accept their son, Or has any problems with it... Or think it's wrong! And because of this silly thing, they're losing a lot of time! Look, This is what I have to say: Life is short, Everything passes by in a flash, And our child is a blessed gift that we receive! Right? We have to enjoy this to the maximum we can, It's such a unique and wonderful love we got to our child! Every mom needs to break her limits, The limit that thinks what her kid needs to do or be, I think there's things that moms can't look away, and it's about being a good person, attitudes, honesty being honest, walking in a path with only positive things like I said before, producing good things, respect, love, citizenship, Now look, Rejecting a son, Only because their sexuality doesn't match with the one that you wanted for them, You're a losing a divine gift! A jewel, a treasure that our kids are! So please don't do that! Try to understand your son, Hug them! And make them understand you too! Tell them it's hard for you as well! That you can't understand them! And they'll tell you their true feelings for sure! Open your heart to your soon! Don't listen to the others! Don't ask anyone for opinions! Ask your son's! Talk to him! Talk to your daughter! They'll have all the awensers you need. They have the awensers, not the others, not the midia! Not institutions! With your son and daughter! It's very important... ...to remember that both sides need to understand each other, right? The son needs to understand his mom and the mom needs to understand her son! Not only moms need to accept their kids, You need to understand that your mother is from a completly different generation, and maybe this subject is very confusing for her! So please be patient! Right? Totally right! And talk to each other! Talk to each other! Is VERY important!!! And be close to each other! Be close to each other! Happy Mother's Day to all! Have fun! Celebrate with joy, acceptance, love! With love! Time is short, and you can't go back! Time is something we can't have it back! If you want to ask anything for our Queen, just leave a comment here and we'll be very happy to know! That's it! Thank you, and we'll see you soon! Bye! Thank you!