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Have you ever watched a snake charmer? I think we've all seen them, but the more important
thing is, ladies, how do you charm a man? This is Doctor Paul, author of Boomer Girls,
A Boomer Womans Guide to Men and Dating. Charming a man is actually quite simple. I often say
be yourself, and that's certainly a part of it. But ask yourself another question, "Why
is a man interested in me?" Well, the key to that is this, a man is interested in a
woman because of the way she makes him feel about himself. You want to charm a man? Do
not use false apologies, don't use false criticisms, don't use false compliments. Be yourself,
and say something very natural, "I like your haircut." Maybe nobody's told him that before.
"Wow, she likes my haircut." Now the key to that is him saying "Thank you." Or, "I didn't
know that you noticed." But he does know that you noticed, and that's the key, because you
are different from others. It's not that easy to make a mistake, but it's also very difficult
to do it wrong, so make it right, and tell the man something that he's never heard before.
That's how to charm a man. That smile is nice, that dimple is nice, but guess what else?
It's how he responds after you say something significant. So don't be like everybody else.
This is Doctor Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.