The Bed Head Blogger - Get comfortable with your uncomfortable - Empower network

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Hey everybody it is me Jae Pettie I'm stepping away from My plan A improving into am down Into a zone that I feel is a little bit more zen I'm here to quiet my mind but more importantly I'm I in here doing my first ever video for our blog from for our in our her blog and what I wanted to talk about today is Stepping out of your comfort zone, and why that's so important to me is because I'm not gonna ask anybody or talk about anything that I have never experienced and you know being an adult, being a woman, being an African-American woman, a mixed woman there's a lot of comfort zones that we get into be it our friends, people that we date, um the types of jobs that we keep applying for, when on the other spectrum of things, when you write down the real wants and desires for yourself like I just recently had to do you're not in line with those and oftentimes what we do is we kinda of talk ourselves out of things that might seem a little uncomfortable in things that are not in our know how and so we don't, we try to pad ourselves and mentally, we'll talk ourselves out of things because your brain is your biggest protector it's gonna do whatever it can to protect you you know that's awesome, and for me that let's me know that God is amazing but at the same time I also know that we as humans are so capable of doing anything and so we can force ourselves to believe anything that we want to we can you can help overcome fears that seemed super giant to us at one point, we can overcome those so, for myself this vlog is the one thing that I am doing that is one step towards stepping into my discomfort and trying to be comfortable with my uncomfortable why I'm saying that is because public speaking is oh my god I'm terrified of it and so I will do everything I can to avoid it and when I'm saying public speaking, yes this vlog is included in that eventhough it's just me and the camera and this park full of people and the people behind me who I don't even know are looking, but anyway I told myself that I wanted to make sure that I I was not only teaching others, sharing this with others, or experiencing this with others because there's somebody out there who's afraid of their stepping out of their comfort zone, but to also walk the walk you know I'm not gonna sit here and be like "hey, if you're not doing anything to change your life um, you know you need to get uncomfortable and get comfortable with your uncomfortable" before I'm doing it. And so, you know I've made a list for myself of things that it is that I need to do that I don't think that I'm already doing things that may seem a little bit scary to me right at first and just tackle em' and that list can be if you're creating this list for yourself that list can be as long or short as you want it to don't psyche yourself out. Don't over do it take, five things um that you want to accomplish and write them down, it's so important to write them down write them down on paper and number them and then tackle them one by one if gotta take someone with you to do it? do that but at least you can say that you've done it. And for me, step one and the first thing on my list was to create a vlog and the important thing is to get comfortable with your uncomfortable in the where those results take you because more times than not we shelter ourselves into this comfort zone and we keep ourselves from the outcome that we are looking to get and we often times wonder how come I'm not, I'm doing this and I'm doing that but you're not really doing what's necessary in order to achieve the results that it is that you want so that's me coming to you as I sit here in the park on a nice lovely Tuesday afternoon and share with you an experience with you and take you along with me on the journey to experience and get comfortable with my uncomfortable in so if you're is not you know video blogging if yours is technically on I don't know if yours is you jnow, going and talking to a girl that you're really attracted to for the first time because you don't you don't know how to speak to her or if yours is writing your first blog, see I'm comfortable with writing I can stand behind that all day but for me and for this business which we are in and it does involve blogging and that's what it is I am doing right now and I wanna see myself change things, I wanna see an outcome I want to see it fast and so I know first and foremost I have to set up tests for myself and I have to do it and I have to say "forget whoever doesn't like it can kiss my butt" and if I fall and if I trip I'm a just have to get up and instead of just saying it this time I wanted to actually do it um in all this time I've never pushed myself to limits, I give myself padding and unless I'm thrown into a situation then I fight you know to get out of it but until you actually trust yourself enough to know that you can do it that's the only way that you're gonna get comfortable with whatever's uncomfortable you know to you. and then you start to create a different list you start to say "Hey, I actually did it and it wasn't that bad" This isn't that bad I actually like speaking to you guys so, I hope that you too take your first step. This was my first step my first video blog and my first step into the world and uncomfortable I'm doing it the butterflies in my stomach have simmered down a little bit and I thank you for sharing that with me and again, I am Jae Pettie and our blog is the Bed Head Blogger because we want to be able to make money from home staying home I think business in bed is so sexy and I think you should experience that as well and if you are interested in ways that you can do what I'm doing right now sitting in the park and blogging, video blogging and getting paid to do it click on the link so you can hear about you know how you can do it and right now we have the Blog Beast, which is crazy it's unleashed, it's makin a awesomeness out of what Empower Network, what the Dave's Dave Sharpe and Dave Wood have already created to be awesome they have doubled it with this new um you know, system the Blog beast and if you've never heard of it you need to click on this link and you need to watch and listen to what they have created because it is a masterpiece I am able to do this as soon as I'm done right now I'm gonna post this is a blog I don't have to do anything else, I don't have to wait to get to my computer I'm gonna do it right here from my phone with this video and I'm gonna post it and it's gonna be my blog and it's gonna be done and its right here from your mobile home so it's like let's you know light our laptops on fire, let's fire our bosses and let's begin to get comfortable with our uncomfortable to begin to live the life that we want to live the life that we invision here you can actually start seeing it So, I want you to, you know click on the link like I just said if you like this share it with others and if you're ready get involved it's twenty-five dollars who doesn't have that? you know it's 25 dollars so that's all and I am gonna go now and I hope that you have an amazing day and that is all. Jae Pettie and I am out of here BYE!