imagine that you are a person who wants to have sex :)

imagine that you are a person who wants to have sex :) Again whenever you say "I want something", you create a hunger for a future perspective. So you imagine yourself having sex with a beautiful partner, and you feel good about it. "Owh that feels so good! I want to have that". Then you snap out of the fantasy, you see how it is. You see the moment, how you are now, and you say "Goddamit, it's boring here, I want to do something about it." So having sex becomes your goal, and it drives you, it motivates you. It makes you hungry to achieve that. You start to plan, you start to think. "How can I have sex? How can I seduce a partner?" "What should I do, what should I wear?" "How should I talk?" "How should I behave?" "How should I send messages?" "How should I meet?" All those things... You start to study, you start to look, you start to plan you start to strategize "OK, apparently it appears that if I wear nice clothes, because the advertisers are telling me that... I will have more chance to have sex." "Ok, so then I'm going to the shop and buy nice clothes." "Apparently if you put some good parfume, girls will might like you." How do I know that? Well I see advertisement. Advertisement knows perfectly well what you want. They put that goal into you of "having sex is awesome." And then they tell you how to get there. Those are the people that control you, because they have what you think you want. So they sell you all those things. Things that you don't actually need, but you think you need. So you buy all that stuff. So you buy Perfume You buy nice clothes you go to a hairdresser, you buy nice shoes. And you go, and you say "OK, where can I find those girls?" "Where should I go?" Owh! You can go to a bar, you can go to a party, you can go to a disco. And that's what you're going to do. You find some friends who have the same goals. and you say "OK, let's go, let's have some fun, let's party." You go to a party and you see for example an attractive woman, just like the one in your fantasy. and you say "OMG! This is it! This is it!" "She's going to make me happy, she going to give me that all I want!" and you say "Hello.." and... That girl know perfectly well based on how you approach her, based on what you are doing. that you want to have sex. That you want to have sex. It's apparent. You are not the only one who has that goal. No, all the others guys in the club also have that goal. So it's really like... very clear. So if she's smart. Or...If she understand just basic psychology, and if she doesn't want to have sex with you. She can either ignore you, or she can take advantage. So she could for example say: "Owh ok, why not buy me a drink?" So you think to yourself: "Owh great if I buy her a drink perhaps I can have sex with her." So you buy her a drink. OK, she drinks it. "Can you buy me another drink?" You say "OK..why not, it's for the good cause..." "I feel bad about it to buy her another drink because I'm not so rich, I don't have enough money. But it's worth it, because you know... If I see the goal I see all that fun, and I think to myself pfff... Whatever!" "I will sacrifice this moment in order to get to that great dream." I buy her a second drink. She drinks it, and she talks, but not really interested. She says: "can you buy me a another drink?" So you buy her a third drink. Then after the third drink, she says "Owh I'm sorry! I have to go to my friends.." "Perhaps see you later." And before you can even ask her phone number, she is already gone. So she has succesfully taken control over you, because whenver you have a goal in your life, you are subjected to a huge amount of manipulation and control. You are like a slave, like a slave for those people that offer you the means to pursue your goal. So if you, I mean.. The attractive person in that club will know that all those people want to have sex with them. And if they are smart they will use their power to get favors or get drinks, or get whatever The fact of the matter is that what defines, if a person is attractive or non-attractive? Well you could say: "a person is attractive, because it's something genetical." "Attractivity is something absolute. Either you're attractive or you're not" But I don't agree with that. Attractivity depends on how much you resemble a certain model. The media constantly projects images in your mind, and makes you believe that having sex with those people who look like those images will make you happy. So if you go to a club; in your dream is a certain type of model. So when you look at all those people, all those women, or all those guys. You will only notice the people that resemeble the model the most, and those are the people that you are striving for, that you want, That you are hungry for, those people that resemble the model, resemble that perspective. So those are the people that you will go after. But since television is projected to everyone... Everyone will have the same goal,everyone will have the same perspective. And if you happen to be a beautiful, a "beautiful" or if you happen to be a woman who resembles that model the most or a man who resembles that model, you will have a flock of people all being interested in you, all seeking meaning, all wanting to have you. Just like they want to have a cell phone, or a new house, or a good job. They want to have you for them, because you give them meaning. You make them happy. You fullfil their dream. Now, Imagine that...OK...You have sex :) It works out, you meet someone in a club, and you know, you meet and you have sex. It's awesome! It's great! It's exactly like how you imagined. It's fun, whatever, but then You have sex the second day, and a third day. And after a week, and two weeks, three weeks, a month, two months. After a while, just like everything, it becomes normal. It becomes... OK... It was special in the beginning, it was "WOW". But now that I have it, it becomes normal. It's plain, it's dull... "OK, i've tried every position..." So... That's the same mechanism that again and again reappears. So what will you do? Well... If you goal was just sex, you're going to say to yourself: "It's her problem...It's her faulth she is not good enough, or he is not good enough." "He is not good enough, because I'm not having fun anymore. He is not good enough.' Well is that really the case, or is it just a normal process of being use to what you have? So either you say to yourself "Pff next! I have to find someone else." So let's just take that path. imagine you have sex with a person, after a while you get bored. So you say to yourself: "that person is not good, I must search for another person." Ok so you repeat the process. You go out, you're more experienced now, you're more practical. You know what to say, you're not so shy anymore. By the way just wanted to say something about shyness, what does it mean to be shy? Imagine that my goal is to have sex with a beautiful partner. I'm in a bar or whatever, and I meet a person that looks exactly like it is in my dream. So I say to myself "Oh my god! I should be very careful what to do now." So that's when you start to get nervous and shy, because you are so scared to ruin it. Because if you ruin it, you're like just Owh I missed it, Owh *** I didn't make it. So you start to become shy, afraid, don't know what to say, nervous, because you think "OMG, if I ruin this I will lose my chance to get to that dream." And that explains what shyness is. Shyness is like being extremely self-counscious, extremely focused on what you are saying, what you are doing, because you think if I don't succeed in my attempt, I will perhaps never get to that goal. So it's an extremely delicate process, and that's why you get shy. Now back to back :) So imagine if you do succeed to have sex, and if you get bored with it. With that person, you say: "it's the person's fault." So it's just like buying a new cellphone. You buy a new cell phone, and after a couple of weeks you get bored, after a couple of months you say "I'm going to buy a new one, that cell phone is not good enough." So you buy a new cell phone, or you buy a new computer, or... you find a new partner to have sex with. So again you go to a bar, and you repeat everything, you get laid again. You say "Owh this is nice, this is cool, this is something else." "I'm not used to that body, I'm not used to that partner. He or she is different, he or she has some different aspects. So again you are happy, you are fullfilled. But after a while, the same process happens, and you become bored again. It's like "Ok, again the same, the same." So you say "pff that partner is not good enough for me no no noo." "I need to find someone else. It's impossible, it's not good enough." SO again , you dump that person, and you go looking for another one. At a cerain point of time you're going to say "*** all women!" They're not worth it, I don't know why should I have sex? It's always the same... So it loses it's value, it loses it's specialness. You know?... Thank you for your attention :) There was also something else that I wanted to say. So this is my first example, the example of futurism applied to wanting to have sex.