Fetishizing People of Color - Dating, it sucks

Hi guys, so I just wanna make a video about me being fetishized I look a bit different than alot of people, I guess. Whatever. But...I feel so weird when alot of guys kind of are attracted to me because of my physical features only. I really safeguard myself from that. Like, I hate guys who like comment too much on like... my hair, my eyes or my skin. Those things is just so weird to me...Like, what? Shouldn't you be dating me because I'm emotionally competent because I'm a nice guy, I'm intelligent, forgiving and I'm a giving person. Not because "oh my god Kaiser has such pretty eyes, so am just gonna go talk to him just because his pretty eyes, like oh my god" And I'm just like, uhm.. Why? You know. I don't want to feel again like an item. Like I am some kinda fetish. I want you to date me because, I'm a good person. I am a magnanimous person. So, yeah it's just so weird I'm not...I'm not a fetish item. Stop being like, obsessed with the way I look because I'm not obsessed about how you look. Like, at all. You know? It's just weird to me, I don't get it. I don't know, just late night musings. So I'll talk to you guys later, uhm... I have an Instagram account, you could follow me, if you wish. It's down below So yea, hope you're doing well. Bye.