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2016
26th December
Mumbai cannot boast of cold winters
But incidentally
on that particular night, the weather was rather chilly
It was around 3 a.m. and I was nearly half asleep
That’s when the phone rang
I opened my eyes a bit and looked at the number
A childhood friend
At this Godforsaken hour
I picked up the phone and that’s when I heard it
The desperation in his voice
I woke up with a start
I spent a few moment pacifying him
And that’s when he said
“Please Come here ASAP! I want to talk to you”
3 am
But a friend’s a friend
He stayed right across town, nearly 10 miles away from my home
I dressed up as fast as I could and hopped on my motorbike and sped off towards his home
In my haste, I had forgotten my jacket and my riding gloves at home
The chill in the air was biting; the air frigid with a numbness that couldn’t be deciphered
By the time I reached his place, I was shivering down to my spine
I spoke to him and calmed him down
Apparently his girlfriend had dumped him for good
and THAT had made him desperate
She left him because he could never find time for her
He was always busy with work
or his other friends
A classic case of taking his girlfriend for granted
Matters came to a head
when he conveniently forgot his girlfriend’s birthday
and had spent THAT day catching up on a movie with a few friends
That was the final straw! That’s when she decided that she couldn’t take it anymore
She dumped him and moved back to her city
without informing anyone
And On top of it all
she blocked my friend from all sort of communication channels
My heart sank after I heard him out
But isn’t this the norm these days?
We want to run after riches and want to create our own personal success stories
But we run with a fear in our heart. We run without taking a deep breath
We run without thinking about life
and the loved ones around us
We live with a perpetual fear of failure
We live with a fear of being judged by people
And it is THIS fear that drives us away from our loved ones
That’s the story of every relationship these days
His mistakes reminded me of a few mistakes that I had committed in life a few years ago
And talking to him reminded me of my college days and a few incidents that left an indelible mark on my psyche
A few incidents
that really changed my outlook and perception towards life
A few beautiful moments
that would never return in life
and A few beautiful experiences that taught me my first major lesson in life
On that fateful and freezing night of 26th December
I shared my recollections of memories with him
And would like to share it with you too
Till Then.....