Never Say I Can't Afford It - What happens?

"I can't afford it" Words that should never be said. Why? I'm Kris Krohn and I'm going to share with you right now. So I love breaking down the mindset of money because I found in my life that all that I'm enjoying today and all of the abundance and the ability to do bigger business and bigger deals and create more value and help more people, it started from being very very broke but developing a mindset before I would ever see the real financial abundance manifested in the real material. Now this conversation is going to sound a little bit hokey, ethereal, voodoo but I assure you that it is rooted in science and I intend to show that science with you today. You see, recently I was watching this video from Jaspreet Singh with Minority Mindset, it's a wonderful channel, I follow him and one of the things that he talked about is why you can't say these words "you can't afford it" and I want to address those four ultra dangerous words because they have the ability to destroy our ability to create. In fact, so many of the things that we really want in life will never ever come to us, they're shut down, they're gone, they're not a possibility and it's because of the way that we shut things down with language and one of the things that Jaspreet is arguing here in this in this minority mindset that he wants to help you develop is that the masses are telling you that you can't afford it and those are really dangerous loser words. In fact, they shut down your brain and they get you losing. I want to tell you, Jaspreet, you are right on the money, that is a hundred percent true and I want to build on this big time because this is really in my wheelhouse of what I believe in and what I want to share with you. Understand the science of the brain, we have this amazing cognitive device, the animal kingdom can't touch what we got with our neocortex and yet, it is a beast that needs to be tamed, it needs to be disciplined and so many of us are not actually using it anywhere near its potential. I don't even know if I am, I just know that I'm using a lot more of it than I ever have based on what I want to share with you. You see, the back of our brain, the subconscious brain, this is what's running our patterns, our decisions, our beliefs that we've chosen into in our life, they are 70,000 thoughts a day on repeat and they form our perception of possibility. Now what I mean by that is, our optical nerves, our eyes are actually taking in every second 20 billion bits of information but we're going to see very little bit of that information which is prejudiced by our belief system. If you say "I can't afford it" that is one of thousands of beliefs that are mantras of your life and when you say "I can't afford it" the subconscious mind is going to reticulate that and articulate that and repeat it over and over and over again. You can't afford to say negative things, you can't afford them if you understood the cost, the physical financial cost and the mental wellness cost of thinking these negative thoughts, you would never have them. So many of you are using your language so casually, "Oh, I can't afford that." The danger in those words, if you understood that in that moment you were planting a seed, watering a previously planted seed and you are nurturing in this garden, this massive behemoth plant that's job was to claim and find evidence of truth that you can't afford it, just by virtue of saying it, you're now saying in my perception, I'm looking for evidence that I can't afford something so guess what. 20 billion bits of information, there's abundance out there available, there's a way to pay for things, there's a way to bring objects together, people together, ideas together especially in the world that we live in today. I mean, what an increasing abundant world but if you allow yourself even one time to say "I can't afford it" you are trapping an idea in your head and now the only way you're going to make sense of that idea is that you have to find evidence for it so you're going to look, if you're going to have conversations, you're going to substantiate it. Meanwhile, abundance is going down but you could never see it because you're programmed with the idea, I can't afford it. Friends, you cannot afford the thought "I can't afford it" So what do you do instead? That's what I really want to share with you. Little bonus here for you in this video is I want to share with you that there is a way to uproot this negative limiting belief and I want to share with you a couple of things that I do that are based on a three-day course that I teach called Limitless, it's three days of reconstructing your mind with a belief system that will make you unstoppable and let's just give you a piece of that right now. First of all, when you have abused language against yourself, it needs to be exiled. That's the first principle so if you've ever said "I can't afford it." I want to invite you to never see those words again. Here's what responsible language would look like, I'm choosing not to buy that, I'm choosing to put my resources somewhere else, I'm choosing to make different choices, okay. That right there, that's allowing you to take ownership and responsibility and to be a choice instead of a circumstance of victimhood where, well, if my circumstances were different, I could get that but my circumstances aren't different so I can't get that. It's like, no, no, don't blame your outside world, don't blame your job, career, lack of money, all these things, take accountability with this idea that I'm in charge of my thoughts and I'm in charge of the fact that there's all these resources and I get to choose what I'm willing to invest in so number one, exile the bad thought "I can't I can't afford it" and by the way, if there are other thoughts that accompany this, money is bad, money as evil, you know, only greedy people get money, you have to hurt people to get ahead, whatever garbage you have in your mind, understand this, money is a magnifier, it's neutral, it in and of itself has no value except for the value that we place on it so you can make money good or you can make it evil. I can't afford it belongs in the trash, it belongs in the garbage, you can't afford that thought so take all of the ideas that are similar to it and number one, exile them. There's actually there's only one authorized scenario where you are allowed to CR that language and it is in a training scenario where you are sharing with another individual why they can't say those words otherwise, you just get to exile. That's step one. Step two, you need to replace them with the words that will empower you. So the example is, I'm at financial choice. I choose to allocate my resources responsibly, I choose where to put my money where to invest my money or what to use my money for. Okay, those are really good examples. Now you could put some abundance on the second step to it that just says, money flows to me, I'm in an energy stream where money comes to me. I am a magnet for resources, I attract all the people, the financial resources, the talents and time and bring it all together to make my creations come about. This first step of exiling and the second step of replacing, this essentially is the form of bleep breakthrough and the reality, going back to the science of mind is that the mind does not like cognitive dissonance so when you say I can't afford it, you look for evidence that says, yep, that's true, yep, that's true. Doesn't take very long before you built this massive garden of I can't, I can't afford it, I don't have money, there's not enough money and the moment you start introducing ideas like there's more than enough money, okay, all of a sudden, you're growing a second garden and these two gardens, they compete, they create a dissonance in the mind and the mind goes nuts, saying, "Whoa whoa whoa, which is? These two are actually diametrically opposed from one another." Conscious choice will outweigh unconscious choice. Do you want to gain control over the beast of the unconscious subconscious mindset? Then the way that you do that is by using choice to start planting intentionally the ideas that you want to see come about so I can afford the choices that I make, I can afford the things that I want in life, money flows to me, there's an abundance, there's more than enough. It may not seem true yet but you have to believe in them first so that the cognitive dissonance will first, it needs to resolve itself which will be, we're going to kill one pathway where we're no longer firing electricity through that neurotic path and instead, we're now firing the electricity through the new ideas in the brain that we're now strengthening and growing into a mighty garden, in the end, there can be only one highlander. There can only be one belief and they can't be opposed to each other so the conscious belief gets to uproot the unconscious belief, we get to actually let it pass away, we're going to fire energy first mentally on what we're choosing to put faith in, believing as if it's true and then you will start collecting evidence. Small at first of what? Its truth and then guess what happens to those evidences, they grow and they expand and it's $10 here and it's $20 there and it's one less bill and it's this and then that can erupt into hundreds of dollars, thousands of dollars, tens of thousand dollars, millions of dollars, I've seen it. So friends, why you can't ever say "I can't afford it."? It's because you can't afford to even say the thought but now you do know what you can afford. You know, all of us really honestly need to go through a school of some mental serious retraining. That's what I do every month when I put on my mindset events, make sure you click the link up here and come out and spend some time with me and my team, we put these incredible life changing 3-day events that train you on how to think different so that you can produce different results.