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SERIES BEVERLY HILLS NANNIES IS HERE TO REVEAL ALL. >>> WELCOME BACK TO "SHOWBIZ TONIGHT." THANKS FOR WATCHING. I'M A.J. HAMMER. TONIGHT IT'S AN EXPLOSIVE SHOWBIZ COUNTDOWN. WOMEN WHO CHEAT. >> Y YOU COULD GET OUT NOW AND NO ONE COULD GET HURT. >> I THINK IF WE ENDED THIS NOW, I GET HURT. >> SO NO MATTER WHAT, SOMEONE GETS HURT? >> MAYBE NOT. MAYBE WE'LL GET TIRED OF EACH OTHER. >> THOSE SCENES FROM "UNFAITHFUL" STARRING DIANE LANE AS A WIFE WHO HAS A TRYST WITH A FRENCH STRANGER. A LOT OF WOMEN LOVE THAT MOVIE, BUT ARE WOMEN LESS LIKELY TO BE FORGIVEN FOR INFIDELITY IN REAL LIFE? WHAT ABOUT THE SEXY HEART BREAKERS WHO CRUSH THEIR MEN'S HEARTS AND MADE THEM SUFFER PUBLIC INTERNATIONAL SHAME? TONIGHT WE ARE COUNTING DOWN THE TOP FIVE WOMEN WHOSE CHEATING SCANDALS SHOCKED US, BUT WHICH WILL BE NUMBER ONE? KICKING OFF OUR COUNTDOWN AT NUMBER FIVE, KRISTEN STEWART'S STEAMY RENDEZVOUS WITH RUPERT SANDERS. THE LATEST REPORTS ARE THAT SHE DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH THE DIRECTOR. WHATEVER THE CASE, KRISTEN GOT BUSTED WITH PICTURES PLASTERED ALL OVER THE TABLOIDS. HER NEVER CONFIRMED LONGTIME BOYFRIEND ROBERT PATTINSON HAS REPORTEDLY MOVED OUT OF THEIR HOME. NOW THE WORLD IS WAITING TO SEE IF ROB DUMPS KRISTEN IF THEY WERE IN FACT TOGETHER. WITH ME IN NEW YORK TONIGHT, NOEL BIDERMAN. HE'S PART OF THE DATING SITE FOR PEOPLE LOOKING FOR EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS. ALSO WITH MY CIGGIE FLICKER. THE STAR OF VH1'S "WHY AM I STILL SINGLE." AND SO MANY PEOPLE ARE SHOCKED SHE CHEATED ON HIM. NOEL, I'M SURE YOU HAVE STATS ON THIS. FROM YOUR EXPERIENCE IS IT THAT UNUSUAL FOR WOMEN TO BE THE CHEATERS? >> ABSOLUTELY NOT. THEY ARE ACTUALLY DRIVING THIS WAVE OF INFIDELITY. THEIR FIRST BIG JUMP, THE WORK PLACE. THAT'S WHEN THEY STARTED HAVING AFFAIRS ON MASS. THE INTERNET IS THE SECOND BIG JUMP. THEY'RE STARTING TO BEHAVE AND MORE MORE LIKE MEN. >> THAT'S WHY YOUR COMPANY DOES SO WELL. CIGGIE, EXPLAIN TO ME WHY IT SEEMS TO MUCH MORE SHOCKING ABOUT A WOMAN PARTICULARLY IN HOLLYWOOD CHEATING ON A MAN VERSUS THE OPPOSITE. WE'RE NEVER REALLY THAT SURPRISED WHEN IT'S THE MAN. >> I THINK IT'S SHOCKING IN THIS CASE. KRISTEN'S STILL IN HER HONEYMOON PHASES. SHE'S YOUNG. SHE'S 22 YEARS OLD. HE WAS READY TO GIVE HER A RING. NOW, THIS PERSON SHE CHEATED WITH, HE'S MARRIED. THERE ARE A LOT OF TIMES WHEN YOU'RE MARRIED THERE COULD BE A DISCONNECT IN THE MARRIAGE. YOU GROW OLD OF BEING WITH THE SAME PERSON. BUT HERE'S MY CONCERN. EVERYBODY KNOWS A, B, C AND THE LANGUAGE. WHEN THERE'S A DISCONNECT IN A RELATIONSHIP, ALL SOMEBODY HAS TO DO, ONE OF THE PEOPLE INVOLVED HAS TO SAY LISTEN, I'M UNHAPPY RIGHT NOW. I THINK WE SHOULD TAKE A SEPARATION AND GO OUR SEPARATE WAYS. WHY DO YOU -- >> THAT'S AN IDEALISTIC NOTION. IT'S NOT THAT WOMEN CHEAT LESS THAN MEN, THEY'RE BETTER ABOUT NOT GETTING CAUGHT. SOMETIMES THEY DON'T CARRY THE SAME ECONOMIC BURDEN. THEY'RE NOT BOOKING THE HOTEL ROOMS. THEY'RE SMARTER ABOUT IT. WOMEN BEHAVE JUST LIKE MEN WHEN GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY. IT'S SOCIETY'S BELIEFS THAT LEAD US TO SHOCK. BUT WE SHOULDN'T BE. >> TRUTHFULLY IT IS MORE SURPRISING WHEN WE HEAR ABOUT THE WOMEN THAN ABOUT THE MEN. I CAN'T TELL YOU THE LAST TIME WE HEARD ABOUT A GUY CHEATING THAT WE'RE SHOCKED. NOT USUALLY. AND THE FEMALE CHEATERS IN HOLLYWOOD HAVE BEEN AROUND LONG BEFORE THERE WAS THE KRISTEN TRYST. THAT BRINGS US TO NUMBER FOUR TONIGHT. ♪♪ >> YES, CRY ME A RIVER. LONG BEFORE KRISTEN AND ROB, THE YOUNG HOLLYWOOD CHEATING SCANDAL THAT ROCKED US WAS BRITNEY SPEARS STEPPING OUT ON JUSTIN. SHE CHEATED WITH A BACKUP DANCER. HE PRODUCED THE ULTIMATE REVENGE VIDEO THERE. NOEL, DID JUSTIN REALLY HAVE TO DUMP BRITNEY AND SING THAT SONG AND MAKE THAT VIDEO ABOUT IT JUST TO SAVE ACE? I THINK HE DID. >> I THINK INTERESTINGLY ENOUGH MEN ARE MUCH LESS FORGIVING OF INFIDELITY IN THE RELATIONSHIP. WOMEN FORGIVE WHEN PHYSICAL INTIMACY BLEEDS OVER. WITH A LOT OF THESE ACTRESSES, THEY'RE YOUNG. THAT'S PART OF THE DECISION COMING INTO PLAY. >> IT DIDN'T SURPRISE YOU, DID IT, WHEN HE MADE THAT VIDEO? I THOUGHT GOOD FOR HIM. >> GOOD FOR HIM. ONCE AGAIN INVITING NEGATIVE ENERGY AND KARMA INTO YOUR LIFE. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO CHEATED ON WHO. WHOEVER IS THE ONE WHO CHEATED IS GOING TO HAVE TO END UP DEALING WITH THE KARMA. AND BRITNEY SPEARS HAD FIVE YEARS OF NEGATIVE FIVE YEARS UNTIL SHE FOUND HER WAY BACK. >> THIS IS HOLLYWOOD. KRISTEN HAS EMERGED AS THE ALPHA IN THIS. SHE DID IT BEHIND HID BACK. SHE'S GOING TO TURN INTO THE MORE POPULAR CELEBRITY BECAUSE OF THIS BEHAVIOR. >> SHE'S GOING TO BE KNOWN TO BE THE STUPID CELEBRITY. SHE LOST A GOOD MAN. WE WILL SEE. IT DOESN'T MATTER -- >> YOU DON'T KNOW IF HE'S A GOOD MAN. >> I KNOW FOR A FACT HE'S A GOOD MAN. >> LISTEN, KARMA'S A B. WE KNOW THAT TO BE TRUE. LET'S MOVE ON NOW TO THE NUMBER THREE SPOT. AMERICA'S SWEET HEART BECOMES A HEART BREAKER. MEG RYAN WITH RUSSELL CROWE. THIS HAPPENED IN 2000. THEY WERE STARRING TOGETHER IN PROOF OF LIFE. MEG WAS STILL MARRIED AT THE TIME TO DENNIS QUAID. MEG DIVORCED IN 2001 WITH DENNIS. LATER CLAIMED THAT QUAID HAD BEEN A LONG TIME CHEATER. BACK IN 2008, MEG RYAN TOLD IN STYLE MAGAZINE HER AFFAIR AND DIVORCE WERE INCREDIBLY LIBERATING. SHE SAID I WAS UTTERLY FREE. I DIDN'T HAVE TO CARE ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THOUGHT. NOW, NOEL, I THINK THAT WOMEN IN HOLLYWOOD DO FEEL LIKE MEG DID AFTER SHE HAD THAT AFFAIR. IT KIND OF BECOMES THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF THEIR LIVES. A LOT OF THEM ARE UNAPOLOGETIC AS A RESULT. >> ESPECIALLY IN THAT INSTANCE. IF IT WAS A RECIPROCAL AFFAIR THAT HER PARTNER STRAYED FIRST AND THIS HAD BEEN A LONG TIME BUILDING, THAT BECOMES A REASON ENOUGH FOR THESE WOMEN TO PURSUE AN AFFAIR. >> LET'S TALK ABOUT THAT AS IT APPLIES TO KRISTEN STEWART. I DON'T THINK THAT KRISTEN STEWART -- I GET THE IMPRESSION SHE REALLY THINKS SHE SCREWED UP. I DON'T THINK SHE'S SAYING THIS IS THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF MY LIFE. SHE HAS NOTHING BUT REGRET RIGHT NOW. >> WHAT HAPPENED WITH MEG IS THAT -- AND I AGREE WITH NOEL ON THIS ONE. WITH KRISTEN WHY IT'S SHOCKING IT'S NOT BECAUSE SHE'S A WOMAN WHO CHEATED. IT'S BECAUSE SHE'S YOUNG AND IN LOVE. SHE HAD NO REASONS TO CHEAT ON ROBERT. SHE HAD NO REASONS TO DO IT. IT WAS A STUPID MOVE ON HER PART. SHE WASN'T MARRIED TO HIM FOR TEN YEARS. HE WAS GETTING READY TO PROPOSE TO HER. FOR HER TO HAVE AN AFFAIR WITH A MARRIED MAN WAS STUPID ON HER PART. SHE MADE A MISTAKE. >> SHE'S HUMAN. SHE'S WORKING IN A REALLY INTENSE ENVIRONMENT, A TON OF PRESSURE. THAT PERSON THAT SHE'S WORKING WITH IS A LEADER, SUPERIOR. SHE FELL INTO THE TRAP SO MANY PEOPLE DO. THEY HAVE A WORKPLACE AFFAIR. IT'S COMMON. DON'T FAULT HER FOR THAT. SHE'S HUMAN. >> SHE HAD ISSUES WITH ROBERT'S BEHAVIOR WITH OTHER WOMEN. SHE WAS A JEALOUS GIRLFRIEND. >> REPORTEDLY. WE DON'T KNOW THAT FOR SURE. >> I DO KNOW THAT FOR SURE, BUT LET'S SAY REPORTEDLY. IN THAT CASE, CALL HIM UP AND SAY YOU KNOW WHAT HONEY? I'M FEELING UNSURE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. >> IDEALISTIC. THAT'S ALL GREAT, BUT WE'RE MINUTES AWAY FROM NUMBER >>> "SHOWBIZ TONIGHT" IS COUNTING DOWN THE TOP FIVE WOMEN WHOSE CHEATING SCANDALS SHOCKED US. LET ME RUN BACK WHERE WE ARE SO FAR. NUMBER FIVE, KRISTEN STEWART'S STEAMY RENDEZVOUS, THE CHEATING SCANDAL THAT SHOCKED THE TWILIGHT OUT OF ALL OF US. NUMBER FOUR, BRITNEY SPEARS CAUSED JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE TO CRY. IT LED TO THE REVENGE VIDEO FOR CRY ME A RIVER. AND MEG RYAN WENT FROM SWEETHEART TO HEART BREAKER AFTER THE AFFAIR WITH RUSSELL CROWE. IT'S GETTING GOOD NOW. THAT BRINGS US TO NUMBER TWO ON THE SHOWBIZ COUNTDOWN. TORI'S *** AFFAIR. REMEMBER THIS? JUST MONTHS AFTER HER LAVISH WEDDING, TORI SPELLING HAD AN AFFAIR WITH DEAN McDERMOTT. DEAN LEFT HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN FOR THE WOMAN HE CALLED HIS SOUL MATE. WELL, THEY'RE STILL TOGETHER. >> WHEN WE SIGNED ON TO DO A REALITY SHOW, WE SAID WE'RE GOING TO DO THIS FOR REAL. WARTS AND ALL. AND WHAT PEOPLE SEE IS WHAT THEY'RE GOING TO GET. >> WELL, TORI AND DEAN HAVE ONE OF THESE RARE REALITY MARRIAGES THAT SEEMS TO BE WORKING. BACK WITH ME OWNER OF -- I'M CURIOUS. DID TORI'S NOTORIETY AS A HUSBAND STEALER FADE WITH TIME BECAUSE HER MARRIAGE WITH DEAN SEEMS TO BE SO SOLID? >> THAT SEEMS TO BE RIGHT. AND GOO INTO SOMETHING THAT DIDN'T USUALLY COME FROM AN AFFAIR. IT ENDED UP IN REAL LOVE. I FELT FOR HER AND HER FAMILY. THAT'S THE NATURE OF THE BEAST. SHE FELL IN LOVE. HE FELL IN LOVE. YOU HAVE A NEW MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF IT. >> IT WAS UGLY, BUT SOME PEOPLE DON'T HOLD IT AGAINST HER. >> NO, BECAUSE THEY MADE SOMETHING WORK. THEY HAD LONGEVITY AND THEY'RE DOING WELL TOGETHER. GOOD FOR THEM. >> I'M SURE YOU'RE NOW WONDERING WHO COULD TOP THE SHOWBIZ COUNTDOWN OF WOMEN WHO CHEAT? THAT HONOR GOES TO NONE OTHER THAN LEANN RIMES. IT WAS A SINGLE PICTURE THAT BLEW HER LOVE WITH EDDIE SKY HIGH. IF YOU REMEMBER HOW IT STARTED, THEY DENIED IT. BUT THEN THEY BOTH DIVORCED THEIR SPOUSES AND NOW THEY'RE MARRIED TO EACH OTHER. AND I HAVE ALWAYS FELT THAT BECAUSE THEY DENIED THE AFFAIR AT FIRST EVEN THOUGH THE PAPARAZZI CAUGHT THEM IN THE ACT, IT WAS SILLY. BUT THAT'S PART OF THE REASON THE AFFAIR TICKED SO MANY PEOPLE OFF. >> IT DOES, I UNDERSTAND THAT. BUT AGAIN YOU'RE DEALING WITH HUMAN NATURE. IF YOU CUT PEOPLE, THEY BLEED. IF RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T GOING WELL, WE'RE NOT LOOKING BEHIND THEIR CLOSED DOORS THIS IS WHAT TOENDS HAPPEN. THEY ASTRAY. SOMETIMES THEY WANT TO LINE SOMETHING UP BEFORE THEY LEAVE. THEY DABBLE IN THE INFIDELITY POOL. >> YES, BUT IT'S SO MUCH EASIER WHEN NOT IN THE PUBLIC EYE AND YOU HAVE FANS AND PEOPLE TICKED OFF. AND TO THIS DAY I STILL SOO E THE TRAFFIC ONLINE WHEN THEIR NAMES COME UP AND PEOPLE THROW THE WORST KINDS OF NAMES AT THEM. >> THEY WILL FOREVER BE ON THE LIST. >> ONCE YOU'RE A LIAR AND YOU DENY AND DENY, YOU'RE SETTING UP A PRECEDENT FOR YOUR FUTURE. NEVER GOING TO BE ABLE TO REPAIR THEIR STATUS. NEVER. THEY'RE NEVER -- ONCE A LIAR, ALWAYS A LIAR. >> GIVEN THE EVIDENCE WE PRESENTED TO YOU TONIGHT, WAS THERE ANY OTHER CHOICE FOR NUMBER ONE ON THIS? >> ELIZABETH TAYLOR. >> THAT'S A WHOLE DIFFERENT GAME. >> THIS SHOWS THIS HAS BEEN A