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Today's topic: When is a Good Time to Go After Your Dreams
Hi I'm Doug Holt with Author of Your Own Story and this is your Daily Growth Hack
Where each day we give you a Tip, Trick or Insight to help you up level what we
call the Five to Thrive. That is your Mind, your Body, your Soul, your
Relationships and yes, your Business. Now, often times at the end of these Daily
Growth Hacks, I ask you to do a couple simple things. A couple of calls to action
to help you grow. One of those is to sign up for our newsletter. Now, if you have
signed up for our newsletter, you know, you get a series of emails from me
directly. Right? And one of the things I do is I ask you a couple questions and
so, when people respond and they do often, I take a lot of time to read those
reflect on them and respond back and a question I commonly get from people is
"When do I go after my dreams?" Now, it's not always worded that way. And I
get that. But that's really what people are asking. You see, oftentimes, I don't
know about you, but it's been true for me in my past is you know you look at
something and you okay. Well, I want to go after that but I need a little security
"Maybe I need to let make a little bit more money." "Maybe it's a little bit more
time." "Maybe it's getting in a relationship... getting out of every
relationship... Maybe it's getting the right job then I can go do something...
Whatever it is, there's always a "...and then I can..." and so the questions come up and
it comes up often to me is "When do I actually go after this dream I have? "When
do I go after the dream of being a filmmaker?" or "When do I go after the
dream of traveling the world?" or "When do I go after my dream of of trying
something different?" ...trying the career being an artist... Whatever it may be for
you. And the answer is Today! Now! Now is when you do it. Now all of us have
different responsibilities right I have a family I have a child and so there's
certain things to do so for me I look at my base needs what base needs do I have
to make you know do I sell you know do I sell my camera do I saw the computer do
I sell the microphone do I saw my car to allow me to go after my dreams well I
certainly would if that was me in that position I would make sure my family was
taken care of now if I was single I was a bachelor at very low responsibilities
you know I could sleep on our friend's couch I would go after right away
sometimes you do as a side hustle and build up to it but now is the time
because ironically and sorry to say but I also had a friend
old friend text me and asking about a problem that they had and unfortunately
this particular friend lost their spouse their partner suddenly suddenly from an
illness and within a matter of a week their partner was gone now how many
times have they dreamt of doing something together in the past right and
I hate to use them as an example but I want to use them as a real-life example
to drive this home to you right we don't know what's going on tomorrow the next
day or next week we're not guaranteed anything but this moment this moment in
time together so when do you go after your dreams I
say you do it now I say you do it now whether you have to get new skills get
an internship work for free for a while there's so many people that undervalue
the idea of getting experience sometimes you have to hustle and sometimes that
hustle is not getting paid right you work for free as an apprentice as an
intern as somebody you find a mentor you just say hey how can I work with you
what can I do for you I've done it in the past where you know my early 20s
where I couldn't afford certain coaches but I was found ways to bring just
massive value to them and in return they just started to spend time with me and I
just was able to soak up all their wisdom and that might be something you
can do you know if you want to be an aspiring artist maybe it's a painter
right maybe that's something you just want to do it's part of your story that
you want to live into well why couldn't you find somebody else that that is a
painter or or grab your grab your paintings and bring them to an art
gallery or you know a frame shop right and say hey look people need frames
these are great displays start off wherever you can maybe you want to be a
filmmaker maybe our photographer right you just
don't know where to start well I can tell you most business owners
need photographers and videographers right but it's a mutual trade-off you
need that experience so work with them work for them for free or a very low
dollar amount you know there's tons of stories. Gary Vaynerchuk has DRock and a
lot of other people do and they'll say hey look you know an act in that
scenario that videographer took years to develop themselves working for free
sleeping on couches just to get secured in that position
now they're living their dream so if you start today. You'll be able to live into
it and live the author of your own story lifestyle I hope this is helpful for you
as I said I love the emails you that are coming in if you don't know what I'm
talking about that's because you're not on the Author of Your Own Story
newsletter so go over there right now and subscribe. It's just one more thing
to uplevel you and just to keep you in that conversation. And I'm gonna ask you
to do something else. Share this with three people that you
enjoy having conversations that matter with. Just three. Very simple and do that
right now as well. And the third and last thing I'm gonna ask you to do is go
inspire someone simply by living your dreams and living the Author of Your Own
Story lifestyle. I'll see you tomorrow.