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Steve and I were married in nineteen seventy-two we have two sons and how we have always been very very active as a family and a couple I set the county record, in bowling December the eighteenth, in 1988 When Steve became ill a lot of that came to a halt he has Medication Induced Parkinson's from taking the wrong medication He couldn't walk so he's going to have to have some sort of help in order to get through the day in the last year watching someone that was a very strong, healthy person loose the ability to do the things that he love to do most and then watching the depression set in on him as his wife and friend it was very difficult. She suddenly had a husband that she had been married to forever that couldn't stay home by himself. At that time I could see that he was going to have a lot of challenges in his activities of daily living. The first day he was not going he gets up and he says to me I'm not going! She pulled up out front, I went out to meet them and greet them and my heart stopped a little bit. He was in a wheelchair and he didn't transfer very well he didn't rise out of a chair well. He didn't walk hardly at all. and I'm sure at his young of age he never dreamt he would be experiencing what he was experiencing and be where he was at. So Steve wasn't in the best of spirits to say the least when he came into the program. I mean I hated it I felt like I was being baby sit. He gets there and the first thing they do is they take the little things off foot rests off the wheelchair and they make and use his legs to walk with I told him you are young and you need to be working at this and getting your mobility back. You need to be an independent individual. They did exercise, and I said what in the world. These little old ladies and stuff like that, they were jumping around, and I couldn't get out of this wheelchair. They hadn't had anybody as big as me, and they had a heck of a time So we actually physically had to help him learn to move his legs in order to propelled wheelchair so just by the end of that first day when Gerri came to get him he propelled himself to the door and to the car in his wheelchair. So we knew at that point that this man had some determination. I told them that I would give them a week, by the time the week had run out I liked it. By the beginning of the following week so he had only been with us for five days he kept working on that. He pulls up to the front of the building and goes to get out of the car and he's got a walker, and we were like blown away and so excited for him! I felt great, I felt like I conquered the world Without them I don't know that he would have gotten well because there's no way he could've been home by himself. And don't play bingo with the girls. Them little old women they tickle me to death. The other participants love him, they call him big daddy. It's it's like a family, and it's just wonderful. His whole life has just changed so he's not home by himself and depressed. Steve now walks independently and gets around and he has his full sense of humor back, let me tell ya. I feel 100%, 100% better. He's taught all of us that work there about the true determination of life and how to battle challenges, that were faced each day. With grace and a lot of faith in God. And a lot of love for other people