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okay so i promised one of my friends
i would go on to google and type in five select words
that i'm not
going to express to you at this time 0:00:16.069,0:00:17.309for certain reasons
and i would find within the top five results
uh... topic to vlog about
before next Sunday so
it's only my first week even starting this and you got lucky with the bonus
one already
the topic that i want to talk about you is
the top five things
not to talk about
while on a date for the first time or the first time that you meet somebody in
general
the first thing that you really shouldn't be talking about on a first
date or the first time your meeting somebody 0:00:48.300,0:00:50.660is illnesses that you may have
people don't want to hear about your *** they don't want to hear about
your *** they don't want to hear about the flu you just got over in the last twenty four
hours
they really don't want to hear that you have bodily discharges that involuntarily
exit your body
uh... i would probably
save that and wait to see if things get a little bit more serious
other thing that people don't want to hear about they don't want to hear about
how crappy your job is they don't want to hear about employees you hate 0:01:18.280,0:01:20.880they don't want to hear about the drama going on at work and they don't want to
hear about how you feel about your box
it's not a good subject because it automatically sends a negative signal
to them
along the same lines
people don't really want to hear about how boring you think your job is
uh... there is an exception to that i think there are some boring jobs that can be
interesting but you got to be careful i wouldn't go telling someone you just met
that you clean porta potty for a living and that you like to scavenge items out of the
bottom of them when you're cleaning them out
that is not interesting for somebody you meet the first time maybe after you've
gotten to know somebody and you've had a few beers they can laugh at that
but i'd be very careful if you have a job in that situation that you don't
really bring that up as a positive conversation tool
the other thing is that you really want to be careful when you are meeting
somebody for the very first time and you're trying to relate to their
emotions or past experiences that they've had
it's very difficult for somebody when they first meet someone to relate to
anything that they have to say
on a personal level you don't know them you don't know if they're lying
you don't know if their twisting the story you don't even know how they felt
about it
there are people
when something happens to them they're laughing hysterically but then later
when they tell the story it is suggested that it was one of the worst thing
that's ever happened to them
you've got to be careful about how you relate to that
the other thing is that you need to be careful that you're not talking about
serial killers
or creepy subjects like that
if you have a serial killer or suspected serial killer living next door to you
you probably don't want to express that to somebody
that's not a good reason for them to come over to your house thinking that
there's a social maniac living next door that could kill them any second
and hopefully if you are going to tell that story
your buff or something
because if you're not then not only are they going to get attacked but your not even going to
be able to protect them from it
so hopefully this is given some good advice on things to not do on your first day
when you first meet somebody
i think these are really important and as simple as they are people do it all the time
i've seen it I meet people and i think they are really interesting at first and my
friends talk them up
and the first thing out of their mouth are one of these crazy subjects that just
immediately
makes me want to run away screaming
i don't want to hear about it so
anyways hopefully that helps out
go ahead and comment if any of you have a good advice
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