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To you what are the bigger turn-offs of men when they're talking to you? How do you
know when you're not feeling that? Um, I don't want to put it this way but
the best way I can describe it is that, I can smell fear. When a guy is intimidated
or he's not sure of himself. I mean, you're never going to be sure of
yourself no matter what you do. You're human. But pretending that you can be, pretending
that you are... How do you know when someone's feeling fear?
You can see it. You can feel it. The shakiness in their voice. Unsurety when they're trying
to talk to you. You Can see it. You can see it, okay.
It's instinct. When a man's not sure of himself that says
to me that he's not interested. If he was interested he'd feel inspired. He would
be there. He would look me straight in the eye. He would
know what he wanted to say. It would come to him. Just looking at me would be able to
inspire that in him. If I don't inspire that then he's not interested. He's not
confident. I've never heard that one before. But it
makes sense. Just talking to you and knowing how you are,
you know... Um, what is it that separates an man who can get your juices flowing compared
to a man who can't? Probably just confidence. They come up to
me and the basically they know they're going home with me. They're not like "Oh, maybe.
Possibly." They're just confident, they know it, and they know that they can do whatever
they're talking about right and... What makes the difference between that? How
do you know when a guy's b.s.ing you and when a guy's not?
You can just tell. How?
Just the way they act, the way they carry themselves, the things that they say...
Some people call it arrogance and cockiness. But it comes off as confident and just it's truthfulness.
They know what they're talking about. I consider myself a very dominant person.
I've very strong. I'm a ***. I'm "the ***".
Yeah, I know. Okay rabbit.
But at the end of the day, I want someone to dominate me. As strong and as hard and
as *** as I am in a club, I'm like "Okay, whatever." You know, I want someone to dominate me.
So if someone can come across like that, that's going to be the first things that's going
to make me kind of be like "Okay." I swear to god I do not believe that there's
a woman more dominant than me. What would that mean personally to me as a man, like
"Hey, this girl just dominated me." You're a ***.
There you go. Lookit, here's the deal. You've got to
quit being wussys. First of all, let me just help you guys out. If you think you're equal
to a woman, you are a wussy. You know. Cut it the *** out. Women don't like it. They ***
get annoyed as ***. And if you aren't exciting enough or adventurous enough, cut that ***
out too.. Let me put it this way, in every social interaction
somebody runs it. So are you going to run that environment or are they going to run
it. If you act like a wimpy, timid little wussy, they run it. And they own you. You
can talk all the tough *** to all the guys and ***, but they own you and they know it.
When you talk to women imagine, I got this one from my kid. I go "You walk up to all these
really hot little things. How the ***.. What's going on in your mind?" He goes "***,
if they're real cute and I get a little bit of butterflies I go '*** that ***.
I want to go talk to the ***. I don't have time to act like a *** myself.'"
I go "Yeah, want do you do?" He goes, and you got to understand this kid grew up
with Uncle Eric and me all his *** life, you know. So he goes up he goes "I see her,
the new girl I want to meet, as this chick I that haven't seen like say from high school
or college. And we have so much to talk about and I go up and I'm all enthusiastic when
I'm talking to her like 'Hey, what are you up to man. Where you living now. What
are you doing?' Just as a friend. You know." And chicks love it because again you're
locking in on the intimacy factor.