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Your depression is trying to tell you something
now since this is an extremely sensitive topic
especially for those who suffer from depression
I want to clarify two things
Number one
not all types of depression are the same
some are easier and some are
extremely extremely extremely extremely
hard to deal with
Number two
if you suffer from depression
or you think you suffer from depression
please get the help of a local mental health professional
in today's world, the concept of depression has been
unhelpfully over used as well as mistreated in many cases
a person enters the depressive state if the amount of stress he is under
is greater than the amount of stress he can tolerate
giving the complement of genes that he or she inherited
this means that depression could happen
and could look like differently for every
single person
now we don't get depressed for no reason
the depression evolved to protect us from any further distressful
situations when our body feels threatened and
it feels like it won't be able to take any more stress
it activates the depressive mode in order to
prevent us from making any rash decisions and force us to take the time, the space
and the solitude needed that's why when you are depressed you feel
physically mentally and emotionally drained disempowered and overwhelmed
as if there is this hidden power that is pulling you down and
sucking you down this hidden power is telling you
stop.
stop everything I don't want anything fun I don't want anything
scary I don't want anything
I can't take any more stress I don't want to put myself in the risk of stress
avoid everything and it sucks away all of your
power in order to prevent you from actually going ahead
and putting yourself in such situations.
look at it this way just as physical pain evolved to tell us
that we are injured and to prevent us from getting any further injuries
so did depression evolve as a mechanism to tell us that we are injured and to prevent
us from getting any further emotional injuries
in other words, depression has evolved to tell us
that something is seriously wrong and need changing and working throw
or at the very least it needs processing and understanding
now this maybe a new idea to you it could be that till now
you thought that depression is part of who you are
it could be you thought that its never gonna disappear
and I know it feels like that at times but depression doesn't have to stay
and just because you are depressed and just because you were depressed for
very long periods of your life doesn't mean that it is part of you
it just means that there is a real serious problem that needs to be addressed
at even a deeper level when we view depression as a signal that
something is seriously wrong it can lead us to develop a more
refining perspective and way deeper understanding of ourselves
and of our lives it can help us understand our triggers,
our limits, the amount of stress we can cope with
areas that maybe we need to work on now I
really really really really don't want this video to sound like
I am minimizing the pain and the suffering of those with depression
nor do I want this video to be used against people with depression
to just "get over it" but rather my goal with this video
is to share a different perspective that can help you look at depression in a way
that can actually help you understand the root of the problem and
therefore not only help you minimize the amount of suffering but hopefully
allow you a chance to heal from it completely that is it
please share this video that way those who are suffering from depression have
the opportunity to watch this and to hopefully, help them minimize their
amount of suffering thank you so much for watching
I will see you in the next video