How to Deal with Failure Motivation - Motivational speech to help you never give up hope

THANKS FOR WATCHING! SUBSCRIBE IF YOU ENJOYED :) In this video I discuss something many motivational speakers talk about, but never elaborate on: failure. People will always just tell you to not give up, to keep on going. But they never seem to explain the fact that if we never learned what went wrong the first time, it can go wrong every time. I learned at a very young age that failure was something I'd have to deal with in almost every aspect of life, and the funny thing about it is, every failure will disappoint you, but not every success will lift you up. Example: If you forget to take the milk out of your car and put it in the fridge after grocery shopping, (which happened to me before, and I'm still dealing with it today) you will be pretty disappointed. However, you never feel accomplished every time you do remember to do it. The reason is "risk vs reward". The more you have to lose, the more the failure will hurt you. The more you have to gain, the more fulfilled the success will make you. The secret is to not just LET these things in life happen to you and accept them. Even in your greatest failure, there is something to be learned. Even if what you learn is that the failure wasn't because of something you did wrong as opposed to something somebody else did better. NEVER GIVE UP There are failed attempts. But like I always say, you're never a failure until you quit.

Failure is a demon we all have to deal with. Whether it's your greatest dream, or the most mundane task. Failure can consume us, break us and make us feel less significant all in one action. Others that speak on failure will tend to advise you to just keep on going, keep pushing, and you should. But you never forget what made you fail in the first place. It's been said: "Those who cannot remember the past, are doomed to repeat it". It's not just about accepting failure and continuing to do the exact same thing. If you don't reflect, you don't reach an understanding of what you did wrong, rarely will the results ever improve. "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result". To succeed in whatever it is you want to accomplish, we must always learn, and more importantly, adapt. What was your last failure? Was it at work? Was it your diet? A relationship? Or even something small like, overcooking dinner? Each of those scenarios, while obviously bringing a varying degree of disappointment, are all teaching moments. What went wrong? If you did the same thing again, would the same thing happen? If the answer's yes, remember it for next time, and get back to it. If you overcook your food, you're not gonna just, never eat again. So if your dreams present a road block or a set back, it'd be just as crazy to give up because of it. This world does too much to trick us into believing you only get happiness once, you only get to chase your dream once, you only find love once. The hardest part of succeeding in obtaining all those things is to learn that you will first fail. It sounds like a contradiction, but think of it this way. What we often consider a dream, are the things that we know won't be easy to achieve. Nobody's dream is to pick an apple from a tree. because, besides the fact it was a horrible example, it's too easy. You could go out one day and just do it. Very little effort required. Success is never more satisfying than when you accomplish something even in the face of failure. But that's it for the video. As always thanks for watching. If you enjoyed, don't forget to subscribe for the best in weekly motivation. Also, let me know down in the comments, what was your last failure, and what'd you learn from the whole thing? Whether you consider it important or not, I wanna know, you guys. But until then, I'll see you all in the next video