What Does It Mean to be Dominant?

what does it mean to be dominant can anybody be dominant can women be dominant what does a dominant do in a relationship with a submissive stay tuned and find out answers these questions on this week's episode of think kink what does it mean to be a dominant I'm Veronica Yanhs founder of desired laid bare we keep easy and actionable kinka BDSM classes to beginners so that they can safely explore their *** desires with confidence a lot of people think that being dominant is easier in the relationship between a dominant and submissive because being dominant is much more straightforward even being dominant comes with its own set of complex situations so what it means to be dominant in a relationship with your partner is that you like to take charge for that you derive pleasure from having your partner give you that permission to lead the relationship and any successful relationship there's a good balance of equal energy exchange between two partners the sub and a dominating the yang whatever it may be and so the dominant likes to take control and the submissive derived pleasure from giving his or her control to the dominant so that the dominant can lead the relationship now it's not to say that whatever the dominant says the end all be off unless you both negotiated that way there's lots of room for discussion and communication like always you can think of it as a distribution of roles in a relationship partner x the dominant does this partner why the submissive does that and at the end the relationship balances out and both people are receiving satisfaction and pleasure from the role that they set forth for themselves and for each other so like a submissive you can teach somebody to be dominant but most of the people that are dominant and our most natural audit is something that you just are born with even though i identify esta mrs. i am only submissive to my partner but everything else I would say that I'm actually very dominant so yes anybody can be dominant but it's not what you're meant to be it's not suited towards your natural inclination then you may have a harder time but doesn't mean you can't learn to be dominant to dominate your partner be a man or woman in bed which leads to another question can women be dominant absolutely so in society and in media films and books is most often that you see men in the dominant position however that's not the end-all be-all it is just as natural for a woman to be dominant and for a man to be submissive however this starts to tread on the societal expectations of what it means to be a man and a woman and that traditionally speaking women need to take the more subservient role it doesn't matter what your gender is so long as you know what makes you happy so if your man and you have submissive tendencies do not be ashamed of that if you're a woman with dominant tendencies do not be ashamed of that so whatever it is that makes you all excited go for it and if you have any questions don't hesitate to put your comments and questions in the box below see you next week and stay key