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Heya playas, I'm pretty tall. Last time I checked I was 6' 1" or 6' 2" which
I would consider to be pretty tall. Now for most of my life I never really saw
this as an advantage but to some girls it is. So the question on the table is
do tall guys get more
girls?
The question submitted to me by Robert Daniel was how to get confidence if
the girl is taller than you. Even if it's by a small bit. Instead of answering
this by myself I asked my friend Alyssa what she thought about tall dudes and short dudes.
Hi, my name's Alyssa. Tall guys
are very masculine looking and they kind of just exude that dominance that
a lot of girls really really like. I'm like 5'
so the taller the better.
I can get away with dating someone at 5' 5" and be able to wear heels. The tallest I've dated
was 6' 2"
and at that point it just gets a little awkward because the size difference is
ridiculous. That's another thing we should talk about, how tall is too tall?
Well, the average male in the United States of America is 5' 10".
So if you're something like 6' 7" and she's like 5' 4",
She's gonna have to climb a stool just to get up to kiss ya. A lot of short guys
they have all the same qualities that a tall guy had, they just don't have the height.
So they may not seem to be
confident. They may also be perceived as not being very dominant
and not being able to protect even though that sounds really wrong because
I know a lot of military guys that are short and they can protect someone just fine. If
something was to go wrong, the two of them are out he can handle the situation.
Not that a woman can't but
a taller man is able to exude that. Natural selection I guess you can say.
Confidence how we so often come to that word. There's this perceived notion that
confidence comes in the form of size. At some point this probably
was true but we live in a technological era where the man who can throw the
biggest rock isn't always the best provider. In fact
just look around you some of the most successful and powerful people in this
world
aren't exactly the tallest or the biggest. Although society tries its very
best to lock us into a specific pattern of what we want and need
we break out of the all the time. You have the right to like who you want to like
and decide what you want to decide. So if you want to date a short guy, go right ahead.
I said I dated someone who was 5' 5".
It was not any different than dating someone who is 5' 11" or 6' 0".
Um, it just,
we were the same height when I wore heels but that was pretty much it. He didn't act any
different.
Except when we were out in public once in a while, you can tell that he would get
uncomfortable. If we were in an area like a club setting
he didn't have that confidence.
He knew he was short and I think is
that kind of plays into insecurity. I know genetics says you have to find the tallest, strongest
person out there and mate with them
because that's how you pass on the best kids.
But you have the option to date the shortest person you want just because.
In fact, doint that is now a choice and no longer an accessory. Disney has corrupted us but we
valiantly fight back.
Disney movies were a perfect example.
You don't see a short prince and you don't see a short hero you always see
the guys that are much more taller than you and are able to
come to the rescue, swoop in and take care of all of that.
A guy needs to have that confidence. Even if
he even if he's 5'
or 6' 5"
or he's even below 5'. Just having that confidence
and knowing who you are
and knowing what you can offer someone else
should just
totally overpower anything else. You hear that?! OWN IT.
Oh, is being short your excuse? OWN IT. Stop being too tall or two small. Just own it!
The key here is what you choose to do is so much more powerful than what
you choose to accept and thus the most important thing to exude is confidence.
If a man is confident about his abilities then the girl is going to feel protected.
Yeah you might get looks ensured you might even get rejected for
being short. The truth is you have to be proud of who you don't allow yourself
to become a victim of society because well, you're
better than that.
You can't change it so you might as well
just show off the other skills and characteristics that you got that single you out from everyone
else. As always guys, love
and peace.
Hey thanks for watching! Big shout out to Alyssa for helping me out with this video.
She may be small but she is one tough son of a ***!
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