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In our 4 parts series on confidence we already went over:
how to eliminate negative influences in part I
and What does body language tell you about someone in part II
and How does a confident person act in part III
Stay tuned for our last video: What will confidence get you!
What will confidence get you, you may think it's going to get you all kinds of rewards.
Well that all depends on what you do with your confidence.
Lying about something is not the same thing as confidence to me.
It takes confidence to do something like that.
And also you need a stomach for it but I'd be very afraid if i'd go through life as
a liar and a cheat.
Confidence can get you many things lets start of with the bad news.
Confidence will get you haters!
Yep.
Confidence will get you people in your life who are jealous of you
whether or not you like it.
They'll surge a way into your life doing whatever it takes
to prove you as a hack and to prove you wrong to the people around you.
As you by now may know a haters tactics are anything but
nice.
So confidence will get you many unpleasant moments and situations whenever a hater has
targeted you as a threat to his fake alphaism and dominance.
What can I tell you, you are more alpha and he or she realizes that if others
see that behavior they no longer see him or her as alpha but as beta.
And beta is quite far fetched really...
That's the downside of being confident and it can have serious forms and a serious impact on you.
Because when you get confident you are starting to own life again & you will no longer
take the b-class world made up around you.
That's quite a struggle for almost anyone!
But guess what you getting confident, what's next besides you becoming amazing.
Here's what's next you'll get 'followers', people who approve of the person you are,
you'll even get people who will love you and try to mimic who you are.
Sometimes that may be a strain on your confidence because
you may see them do in a way you never would but hey that's the price to pay.
Anyway between those who love you, you can find
those you love, truly love!
That's what's true love is.
It's conditionally.
Let's face it, it wouldn't be love if you couldn't make a choice about it.
Anyway a confident person attracts other people and even forms others peoples lives.
That's more a task than a reward but ask any jimmy out there what confidence will get you
and they can't wait to tell you about the reaping of confidence.
In my opinion and with all due respect they will have a long road to walk!
But that said you will get some great contacts in your life and find familiarity with
people who are equal to you eventually and you will have contacts who you can trust.
Al through I advice you not to trust anyone not even yourself.
Also you will find people who have the same mind set as you and
who are loyal to remaining confident in what they are trying to accomplish.
In other words confidence will get you great contacts and you may both reap rewards
out of those contacts.
However it ain't no pick nick.
There is a lot of work you should do to become confident
and a strong leader.
Because that's what you'll be when you are confident and you
have gotten your *** together.
There will be mistakes, there will be great accomplishments
but in the end you have to always stay focused on keeping it together and making
it so that that idea that way of living stays dense.
Only than you can stay confident and 'reap' the benefits of a positive lifestyle.
So what will you get out of confidence in my opinion!
A whole lot of work but also a whole lot of joy and accomplishment in life.
It's challenging but would you like to know you were confident at the end of your
walk or would you like to know you gave up & never really gave in to me.
Give in to yourself, you'll thank yourself for it.
Seth Carnett from Mr2ndopinion cya next time for another 4 parts series!