Arre Ho Ja Re - Gender - Episode 6 part ii - The girls v/s Delhi streets

Raghu sir shared something very interesting with us. You three girls go out, if someone teases you, click their picture. Make that person famous on social media! He gave us an idea, these people who stare at girls.. should be taught a lesson in a polite way. We went to Chandni Chowk.. and all of us split up in different directions. People started staring & leching at us, the moment we got out of the car. What are you looking at? What are you looking at? - Nothing kid! Then move ahead! Take a good look! Have a look.. look! Should I turn around.. show you how I look? I stood at one place, he was making some patterns. So I started watching and.. such a huge crowd gathered all around and.. people took out their phones and started taking pictures. They are taking my pictures instead! Come over! You wanted to take pictures, right? C'mon! Come! Come! C'mon let's take a picture together! Come let's take a picture together! I was, maybe, dealing with this matter very decently. The person who was taking my picture... I went over and took a selfie with him. But what Farah did.. Did you take a photo? - No. Why did you take a photo? - What photo are you talking about.. Why did you take a photo? - Its my photo! If you see a girl walking in the market, does that mean you'll take her photos? This is my picture... This is my photo! Photo! Why did you take the picture? They were like a group, they would gather all together.. as if something big was happening. As if they're seeing a girl for the first time in their life! And with that intention they would all gather around us & ***. What are you doing? People stare at girls when they wear short clothes, right? So we are clicking their photos. That's wrong, isn't it? It's wrong of them. - Yes, they are doing wrong things. Why are you staring at me? I am looking at the scenery. - Scenery? After that, when the three of us were standing together.. so a lot of people started gathering around us. What is it? Don't do that, when will you talk then? Hello, hello! Uncle, please come over here! Why are you clicking photos? Show us the photo. - You just clicked a photo, right? Farah, he clicked one right? No, you delete it just now. Did you click a photo or not, show us? What the hell is this? - It will fall down. How can you click a picture? - I didn't! Why did you click our picture? if we're standing on the street, does that mean you can take our picture? Photo! - There is a photo in your phone. We just saw it. - You delete it. We told you to delete it. - Delete it! Show the photo. Delete it. - One second, I'll delete it. Delete it now. - Why did you click it? One minute, why did you click it? - Sorry madam, sorry! It was a mistake. B%&#***# can't girls walk around freely on the Delhi roads? Delete it.. - Show the photo. First show us the photo. - See this pervert! See this pervert, see this pervert. Didn't you click a picture of the girl standing over there? Sir, it was a mistake. Mistake? B*%*%*%* Don't you have sisters at home? No, he doesn't. He doesn't have a mother or a sister. You think girls are helpless? - Show it over here. Show it to us. - I deleted it. Show us the photo. - I deleted it, sir. You deleted it, show it to them. - We need to check. One second. - Give it to him, he'll delete it. You clicked a photo, I saw it myself. He clicked it, and we saw it as well. Sir, have a look. What do you think you mean! - Sir, please have a look. Where is it? - Where is it? I saw it, just now. - You just clicked it. Ma'am, you just came into the photo. - How come? You’re looking at women.. when your one foot is down the grave. Yes! - Sorry, sorry madam. Dare you do it again! Let me take your mobile. - No, I've deleted it, sir. No, ok sir! On top of that he's lying. It was a mistake, sir. No, should he apologise or not? - It was a mistake. If it was a mistake, say sorry, why are you lying? You knew it was your fault, you knew, right? Why are you lying that you didn't click any photos? Whereas, we saw it ourselves! Don't you have a wife at home? **** We aren't teaching men what they need to be taught.. we are teaching girls, everything. And even now, anyone who looks at us will say, firstly, why did these girls leave their homes in such clothes? This is exactly what will happen, if they go out this way. However this experiment turned out to be.. there will be no immediate results to this.. Whatever will happen, will happen gradually. That too depends on one's willingness, whether they want to change or not. Hello! Hi. - Hi, how are you doing today? I'm doing just fine. We're also good. - I believe you had an adventurous trip. It was.. It was very bad! It was very bad. - Very bad, why? Raghu, I felt I was ***. After a point, I told them I can't do it. People have such a dirty gaze. If you stand at one place, they'll crowd around you. They're that bad. One man took a photo of me from behind. I went up to him and asked, if he took a photo? No.. no, he got scared. I told him to show me his phone, I saw my photo in the gallery. I got so angry, so angry, that I broke his phone. Lasheeta, you? Being a Delhi girl, this is a daily affair for us. And it didn't happen just once. When the three of us were standing together, again one more man clicked our picture. And Kirti spotted him. 'Farah look he took our picture', then.. then we went and checked his phone... and again. if we're standing on the street, does that mean you can take our picture? Delete it! Don't you have a wife at home? Do the boys think that this was provoked? No, I don't think so it was provoked. Comments were made about you'll . Did you’ll hear any of them? She's hot stuff! A lot more was said actually. What happens is that you leave.. when they're sure.. that you can't hear them, that's when the comments come in. The crew that was with you.. they heard a lot of comments about you. Was there anyone who looked at you in such a way that it didn't offend you. One guy from the crowd came forward. Second time, when the other man clicked our picture. and I just charged up.. A guy from the crowd came forward.. and said 'even I saw that you took a photo!' - Yes! See this pervert, see this pervert! Didn't you click a pictures of the girls standing over there? Sir, it was a mistake. - Mistake? @##$%! Don't you have sisters at home? - Why? Good, good! Did you take any photos that I told you to take? They don't give us a chance to click their photos. Because when you look at them, they'll know that the girl has noticed them. and the moment you take out your camera, they'll avoid & be like this. One guy actually hid his face! He made a *** expression at me when he saw me, you know like this. And the moment I took out my camera and told him to come out.. show your face.. He didn't show his face. He hid himself in the back. And some shameless category of people were smiling at the camera, when I was clicking. Yes! Do you think you put yourself at risk today? By reacting the way you did, getting into people's faces! Ya, I do feel that. If the crew hadn't been there with us.. If the crew hadn't been there with us, we might not have dared to do this. Everything that happened, I've only done this through Re-Gender. Otherwise I wouldn't have been able to do this ever in my life! Thinking of the consequences, probably she's saying, she wouldn't have done this alone. Do you think this will benefit us in any way? It depends on people's willingness. One can change their mentality only if they themselves want to, or else it won't change. Girls can't change this situation. Even if the girls would've screamed in that situation.. filthy mother f*&%#$@ are never going to support the girl. Only guys, who see these women.. as beautiful and they respect that, they can change the situation. If you think that we can take a photograph, take the photograph, if the boy gets aggressive, they can react in any manner! Either the person will shy away or have the guts to come forward. Or they'll get mad saying, 'how dare you click my picture!' So don't try, and get out of that situation. And it is better if you can get a picture of that guy.. there can be an effort made to shame that person also on social media. What do you think? What did you'll learn from this situation? They are a group of animals that we cannot reason with! I feel bad that I put you in such a situation. Where you're feeling molested, you're feeling ***.. It is disgusting how this.. how men behaved in this situation. And that situation has to change. As long as this change does not come around in India, we cannot be a perfect country, we cannot even be a good country. If half our population is feeling ***, every time they walk on the f******.. I'm sorry, I’m losing my temper. Calm down! Calm down! I'm going out, I have to go to a party. I'll wear some nice clothes and leave! Let's see who teases me! Ok this is not a joke, but thank you girls for doing this. You were very stupid in a lot of places. But what matters is that you're safe. And boys.. behave yourself! I live in this house! Don't yell at me. - I live in this house! Don't f*&^%$ yell at me, get that in your head, I ain't your b*&^%. Leave the house right away! He said that.. this is the reason why I don't respect women, whats your status? You *******, whats your status? Calm her down. - Say sorry to her. To win a war.. you have to stand your ground and fight for it. I'm quitting, I'm quitting. What is this? Why are you here if you want to run away? Jackie, Jackie! - Calm her down! I don't have any personal issues with Jackie. Day before yesterday, I told him at night that.. You were the last one to have dinner. so the remaining food thats outside... please put it in the fridge.. and whatever thats left on the pan, please dump that, you know. I told you at night that, the food you.. Are you the *** kitchen police? Is there an inspection that takes place every day? If it does, tell us the time, everything will be cleared before that. Calm down.. - Yes, there is an inspection. Now, they didn't want to eat. - In the morning, I.. You don't have anyone to fight with that's why you've come here. I'm not interested, I won't.. What kind of an ****** he is, man? We came here to be Re-Gendered basically. The rules were announced on Day 1... that he has to do the women's chores and I have to do the men's chores. Every time he's like.. 'I'm not in the right frame of mind, dude.' 'I'll take some time, dude.' Do you understand that when food is cooked in the kitchen.. then the kitchen has to be cleaned? What is wrong with you? I'm a foot away. Nothing is wrong with me, something is wrong with you. Don't f***** yell at me. Last night, you told me you'll do it before you sleep. - Who the f*** are you? Then you said, I'll do it right after I wake up! It's evening and you still haven't done it. -Who are you? She lives here. - I live in this house. I live in this house! - Do not f****** yell at me! Get that in your head. I ain't your b****. Stay away. - Get away from me. Stay away! - **** off! He keeps on repeating the same thing again and again.. that I respect women, I respect women! He climbed over here and talked to me! You have the records, please go and check. He says that he respects women! Yes! - This how you talk to them, you scream? I respect those women who deserve respect. You mean, I don't deserve respect? You are living a lavish life because of your parent's money. What's your status? Your self worth? Why don't you ask me... You have come here, so you know beforehand... what will happen over here. Obviously we'll have to do things that are out of our comfort zone. We have to make ourselves understand this thing. Why did you come here when you knew that you'll have to clean the kitchen, you'll have to sweep the floor and wash dishes as well, didn't you know all this?? Why? - I don't want to talk to you. No, I wanna talk to you, because we live in this house. -I don't want to. Or else just leave the house right away. - Leave? Leave? - Leave the house right away. Leave the house right away! If you live here, you'll have to work. You have the same value over here! No! - If you got the guts.. Earn your value! - Pick me up! Earn your value, earn your value! Pick me up! - Oh get lost, from here. Go and talk in front of the cameras. I don't have enough strength in my *** to do what I came here to do. Men can't do what women can do! You guys cannot do f***** anything! You don't even have the strength to talk to me. I want to talk to someone whose incharge. But I'm not going now, I'm not. I'm leaving. Come here and talk to me, come here and talk to me. Come here and talk to me, you *****. Women say whatever that they feel like saying. And they really don't give a ****, how men feel! This is what I've learnt in the Re-Gender house. This.. frying pan.. This frying pan is the reason why she's fighting with me. One **** frying pan, for this pan she is abusing me! *#$%#*#*#* and what not has she said to me! They don't have any sort of humanity within them! That is missing, I'm telling you it's not about.. ego or males or females, it's not about that! They don't have any feeling of humanity in them. When you girls transform me into a women, I'll have more manners than her. It's a shame! That's not a woman. What's a woman, you tell me? Every woman is beautiful in her own way and she is supposed to be loved. I'm not here because I hate women or I treat them bad. I came here to experiment on myself. I came here to find answers to my questions. But end of the day, I got humiliated for free. Just by speaking a few words in English.. doesn't wipe away the behaviour of a cheap woman from the street. Your dirty thoughts will stay exactly where they were. Just by abusing or.. by opening up too much, 'I want to have sex with him'.. Does that make you bold? Just by talking a little in English, it doesn't work out! Or by putting on torn western clothes, it doesn't work like that. Be modern with your thought, not with your clothes. You want to become modern, you become from here. Not from what the **** you wear! If she ****** comes here, I'll leave the house. I'm telling you now guys. - Leave, right now. Every day, we're suffering for food. - This is what happens. Every moment, you both.. I have everything I need in life and I don't need this ***. ***, bloody! Let me go! My father never humiliated me! What are you doing, Jackie? Humiliated me! I don't know where you've got such people from. If you don't open the gate, I can f***** go up. Don't be crazy! I know it's a stupid thing, but I can't deal with her. Arun, you know I'm character. Ever, till the time in the house. I won't deal with Farah. It's way past that! There is a limit to everything. But why is everyone saying that I raised my voice? I asked him politely five times. One second! - Still if a person cannot understand.. then how do you expect me to talk to them? And who charged? Who climbed on top of whom? Didn't you see that? Tell us in one line. - In his house.. Does his father talk to his mother in such a charged-up manner? Does he climb on her and talk to her? And he talks about culture and civilization? Calm her down! - Say sorry to her. Calm her down! - Jackie, Jackie! Jackie, somebody is standing outside. - Calm her down. People are standing outside! Jackie, relax! What happened? This is the limit! Bloody, just went to my dad, man. Do you know who the **** my dad is? You know who the **** you are? Farah, don't do that. Cut the camera. Good evening, how you doing? Jackie, how are you? I'm good, thanks for asking. Basically, Farah.. I mean, broke at me in the evening. She said a lot of things that hurt me. And I have never seen a woman abuse that much. She just keeps yelling things out, which is.. That's not a way to communicate, you know. Jackie, tell me one thing. Why do you think, are you attracting this kind of a behaviour from her? Was it necessary to abuse so much? Did she have to humiliate me so much? No, no, I understand that. My point is just that, it’s not the frying pan, it was my fault and I even apologised. But that's not the point, my only point is that the language and the humiliation was not necessary. No gender humiliates the other gender. I am not here to be humiliated. If this keeps on happening, then I'll probably lose my respect for women. I assure you that. Why would you fake say Jackie, it's Jackie.. yeah Jackie, I get along with you, I love you Jackie! What is that then? In a seconds time you go back up and then you say sorry again. So that's like, you slap a person and then touch their feet and say I'm sorry. I'm asking you, the damage that was done,.. where did it hurt you the most? Obviously on my self-respect! No one has ever talked to me like that. I have never seen a woman talk like that. I am just trying to say that.. there is something within you that attracts her,.. ok? That's why she likes you. Similarly, there is something about you that irritates the other person.. that's why they get irritated. So that's their problem, not mine. No, no it's not a problem. I'm just telling you to introspect yourself. Ok, ok. -Jackie if you think.. that you've done or said something like that.. you need to grow as a person, right? And you need to understand that you.. came here for something,.. for an understanding.. and that's more important, right? Your own self development or.. the stuff that's inside you.. should come out, for you to understand yourself. Yes I understand these things. I was just going to give you a task, not really a task, just too.. you know, it works well with a lot of us.. Ok! If we stand in front of a mirror.. and we.. talk to ourselves, looking into the mirror.. I'll give it a try, definitely. -Yeah! My mission was to go to a garage.. in a DTC bus. The task that I have to do.. is of a mechanic. I have no clue about it. Pick it up like this, with your hands. Pick it up, pick it up! Dirt is getting inside my eyes, Brother! I got scared just by looking at this man. He looks like a monster! like come here! do it! do that! As if we are his servants! I found out that I was pregnant and I was so excited, so excited! f****** As usual.. he did not support me and.. I had to abort my baby. I have to go to a day care and.. take care of small little kids. Whoever comes first in this performance will be rewarded a tiara and that person won't have to do any work tomorrow. Sorry, I have been too straight and I don't like dancing for myself You're ready for the punishment? I'm waiting. You won't be smoking for next 5 days. She dressed up in a nice kurta, like a proper Indian woman. He looks exactly like a female. Alright, all the best! All the best! We gave him good luck and we.. We were scared as well because it was a lecture. It was on the topic of women, and it was in a college. All the best! - All the best! All the best! - Bye!