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In our 4 parts series on confidence we already went over:
how to eliminate negative influences in part I
Next weeks we will talk about
How a confident person acts and what confidence will get you!
Stay tuned for Today video:
What does body language tell you about someone
Ladies & gentlemen, what does body language tell you about someone.
Well it depends whether or not your faking it, if you ask me.
But lets say your not faking it.
There are 3 kinds of people, people who look down, people who look up and people
who look through the sky because they can't face being in the middle of things.
First of let's talk about those who are depressed, everything is bad, they are ashamed
of themselves, their life and how other people act, the crawl together every time
something touches their feelings good or bad and rather stick in their overly protective
comfort zone than facing the truth.
Their entire life someone else has been taking care
of them and that person clearly doesn't really give much to live for.
These people slack in their life, they have no energy and
uncautiously take energy away from others by displaying themselves in such a depressive way
That you might think a plant has more life than that person
Than there are the people who are arrogant and walk over those first people, they think
such emotions are for sissies, they abuse them and get their kicks out of being bigger
and agressivly better than those nobodies.
If they can they'll even some extra logs on the fire.
Namely when those who look down have something to look up for.
Like a girl or boy who has been nice to them.
They'll gladly position them in their sight and show their dominance whenever that girl
or boy is in sight of that person.
As you can see, body language can do much to show you who you are but I think many
much body language doesn't really roar of confidence.
As you can see there are extremes that and that some may believe their
confident but they are actually obnocious and arrogant.
Knowningly or not.
Body languages can tell you much about someone his confidence but really confidence
comes from within.
Standing for what you believe in.
Making sure you do not stand in someone his way even if he or she gets
in your way.
I didn't say you can't express it when someone stand in your way.
I said you should confidently take charge of yourself and the other person when
this happens.
It may not always be successfull but a confident person trains
him or herself in it to get better at it.
Confidence is the same thing as being dominant, arrogant or overwhelming.
But, here's the but, in some situations I think
it's correct to show dominance, arrogance and to be overwhelming.
Especially when a group of hyenas is trying to rob
or rip the ribs or limbs of your body.
To my opinion, being open, not being afraid to see what happens around you,
showing the world you are not going to be oppressed or harassed or made to feel ashame
or fearfull by crushing behavior that put you under pressure is a confident way of
presenting yourself to your envirement.
If you are able to do that, you've gone through quite the transformation and quite
a ride.
But with a bit of help and a bit of understanding and a little more education
you'll get there.
I hope this gave you some insight on bodylanguage Seth Carnett from Mr2ndopinion.
Byebye